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Best bets in Ukraine?
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(01-11-2015, 09:11 PM)brian_scott Wrote:  Hello, Scott & everyone:  I'm new here and plan to go to Ukraine in April or May, and need advice on where to go and what to do, to find wife in Ukraine.  I'm early 50's (fortunately still look 40's), have never been married, never had anything good happen with American women, and am unusually inexperienced due to having depression and shyness when I was younger.  So I am one of those who is only comfortable with much younger women, and I'd still like to have at least one child too--and I need to gt something to happen SOON!.  But I am so lonely and have had so much disappointment from the dating sites, that I am sick!  Can anyone please give me some encouragement and point me in the right direction, with reference to Ukraine?  Or, would Russia or a different CIS country a better bet than Ukraine to meet younger women?  Thanks!

Once, when I was in the Army, there was a lower enlisted man, he was quite old for his rank. We were in the process of wiring some equipment and he suggested that we do this one trick to save some time. I was quite impressed that such a low-IQ guy could know something so smart. I asked him how did he know this? He replied, "Experience I guess."

No matter how smart you are, how cunning, how clever - you can't replace experience.

Just going to Russia and/or Ukraine is going to give you just that: experience.

You can read and read and get this or that advice but without experience, you're flying blind.

Congratulations, you've made the first step.

I honestly believe that you will (need to) make several trips over before you find your perfect match. Some find on the first time. Some get lucky; not all do. Good luck on your luck!

I honestly believe you should get a membership to either Elena's or Cupid and start chatting with some women that live in the cities you'll be visiting. Better yet, put up on your profile that you're coming to Ukraine/Russia in the Spring and you have honest intentions to meet a woman. Many marriage minded Eastern European Women are tired of emailing men who never come to visit (over 98% of the men who get a subscription to EE dating websites never make the trip). Many women who see that you're coming over will look at you very differently than a man who's just "window shopping."

As for being shy, I recommend that you read DeAngelo's Double Your Dating. The title is hot-linked to the page where you can read it for free (in the comments section).

And last, don't be "too eager." Women can smell it a mile away and its like a skunk smell. You need to be a bit confident, aloof even. Nothing is so appealing than something that you can't have. You need to present the idea to women that you're something special, that they should pursue you and that YOU CHOOSE which woman you want.

Good luck to you!
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Best bets in Ukraine? - brian_scott - 01-11-2015, 09:11 PM
RE: Best bets in Ukraine? - Scott - 01-19-2015, 08:08 PM
RE: Best bets in Ukraine? - Paul_Dutch - 01-22-2015, 03:54 PM
RE: Best bets in Ukraine? - Seeker - 03-14-2015, 02:06 AM
RE: Best bets in Ukraine? - Scott - 07-05-2015, 11:09 AM

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