07-05-2015, 10:37 AM
(06-05-2015, 04:57 PM)Hockey Wrote: Hi Scott,
1) How do you keep the relationship going once you return home and would a girl leave me if I went bankrupt or got badly injured? I have heard that a good foreign woman will go throught hell with you.
2) How do you help your bride get adjusted to her new life in America and would a girl from a bigger city mind living in a smaller town?
3) During the two to three months that I am there will any girls be interested in dating me?
4) Do you have to be rich? I have friends who are interested but they are blue collars workers (ie trades and construction).
Thanks and take care
William
Super questions.
Remember, there is no "always" rule in Love. What works for one Woman, might not work for another. That said, given 100 Russian Women and 100 American women, you can take a statistical average based on how the women are raised.
Yes, a Russian Woman is more likely to "go to hell and back" with you. The reason? She has been raised her whole life to believe that marriage is a FOREVER affair. She will stick with you through thick and thin because she has that intention when she marries you. A lot off American women see marriage as a transitory phase much like leasing a car. They can trade in (or trade up) whenever they see fit. And for American women who do intend to stay married "for life," you have to contend with their sisters, girlfriends and co-workers. Get one or two feminazis around otherwise "normal" women and in a year or two, the normal women will be crying for all sorts of feminist "rights" that they had never heard of before. When a woman hears from her Mother/friends/co-workers, "Well, Men are Men, be happy that he pays the bills," you're going to have a lot less marriage problems than the woman who hears, "You didn't get oral sex and/or a back rub every night this week? File for divorce, talk 1/2 of his money, get alimony and child support and then go bang the pool-boy."
Interestingly, my Wife is always attentive to me at home but when we visit her parents, its like she goes out of her way to show her Mom what a super Wife she is. An American woman will try to do less to show her mom how "independent" she is.
My Wife disliked the whole idea of America. She saw the US as a land of spoiled and ignorant people. And to some extent, this can be true. Once she was in the US for a few months, she came to love the US for a few reasons including, but not limited to:
* Lack of government corruption
* Roads without potholes
* pre-washed lettuce in a plastic tub
* pre-washed and cut carrots in a bag
* people with friendly and positive attitudes
* people who have a "can do" attitude
As for big town vs. small town, it depends on the Woman. Some want a more relaxed life, outside of a city. Some want a cosmopolitan lifestyle. The thing is, if you find a Woman from a small town in Siberia, she is probably going to fit in almost anywhere where they don't have 2 meters of snow.
3) During the two to three months that I am there will any girls be interested in dating me?
- I don't know, I've never met you.
4) Do you have to be rich? I have friends who are interested but they are blue collars workers (ie trades and construction).
- No. A blue collar worker in the US has more creature comforts (car, owns own home) than does a blue collar worker in Russia who takes the bus and rents an apartment. So long as you love her, take care of her and provide for her and any children, she will love you and the kids and take care of you back.
- Scott