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Male Shaming Tactics
Bryan on August 12, 2015 at 5:25 pm said:
Guys wake up… Skype is a wonderful thing. Big head, not the little one.

Elenasmodels – for the win.

Stop paying for this crap and find a real woman. Met my girl here and it is a wonderful thing. Just got off a 4 hour Skype with her and we are already getting ready for me to arrive for another visit in September.

Wake up guys and be smart.

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on August 14, 2015 at 4:58 pm said:
Seriously, I can’t see why you would spend a few thousand for a tour (most if not all of which are bogus anyways) and wouldn’t get a membership. Sad thing is that most men, 19 out of 20 who “meet” a Woman in EE online still don’t go out to visit.

I guess its the same reason why 95% of all lotto winners are bankrupt after 5 years.

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on August 15, 2015 at 8:43 pm said:
Ha! ha!

“I guess its the same reason why 95% of all lotto winners are bankrupt after 5 years.”

I would permanently relocate to one of those (or rotate between) countries where the natives speak Spanish, Russian, or something similar…if that ever happened.

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Dale on August 12, 2015 at 5:52 pm said:
Another technique that I used and which also weeded out the bona-fide women who were flakes was to keep things low key and noncommittal for 5 or 6 months. Only a woman who is both bona-fide and has her act together will stay interested this long.

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on August 14, 2015 at 4:51 am said:
On the other hand , women , who are seeking for a lifetime partner , to build a family , may be inclined to believe , that you don`t know , what you want.And , that maybe , you are a player.
That is , when you are only writing mails or letters , and nothing else.

Someone , who is going over to meet her , in these periods , may well take her mind off , of you.And , she may feel , that he is more direct , and knows , what he wants.

Just something , to think about.Especially , when you believe , that SHE is , THAT woman for you.

Don`t let another man , run off , with her !!!

Understand , when she says , that she wants a real man

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on August 15, 2015 at 8:47 pm said:
Dale and Paul,
Two great points to consider. I guess it’s a balance of each…but I could be wrong.

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on August 16, 2015 at 10:29 am said:
Fortuna Audaces Iuvat.

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on August 16, 2015 at 4:40 pm said:
I was talking , with my girl , on a date , about , how everything went , on my first trip.
That I made the decision , to come over , and to meet with , the other lady.

But , that didn`t work out.So , then I wanted , to meet her.

She said , it was good , that I came over.Otherwise , maybe , I would not have met her.So soon!

So , does Fortune really favours the brave ???

In my situation , it happened.Maybe in yours also ???


on August 16, 2015 at 6:15 pm said:
From past experiences…whether I fail or succeed… I tend to be rewarded for taking calculated risks…I’m an extrovert and come off as a jock from first appearances but many people mistake me for a bookish intellectual if they have never met me in person…a curse or blessing.., high IQ and athletic …plus common sense.
I noticed since I was 5 years old that telling it like it is (the truth) gets you in serious trouble…especially in America.

on August 26, 2015 at 9:45 pm said:
Interesting point in this article, from a site linked by William.
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“Russian women respect men who make it clear what they want. They love sincerity and commitment and loath aloofness and ambiguity. They hate dealing with someone who sends them mixed signals. In the West, you’re forced to hide your primal instincts and be indirect because showing interest first might make you appear desperate and needy; in Russia, not showing interest quickly enough makes you appear insecure and indecisive. If she detects that you’re playing games—and she knows perfectly well the difference between flirting games and games that showcase your ineptitude and insecurity—she’ll abruptly stop talking to you and move on to a more promising candidate. Life in Russia is too short for games.”
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I guess this implies a man should show strong intentions when dealing with a Russian or Eastern European woman he really wants.

Steve R on August 13, 2015 at 6:42 pm said:
One of the things I looked for in the full header is anything mentioning “The Bat”, which is a email tool used by those issuing mass quantities of emails.

Ignore the “bats”.

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on August 14, 2015 at 4:56 pm said:
I’d read something about that years ago – another good thing to look for, thanks.

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Paul on August 27, 2015 at 4:27 am said:
Seeker ,

It is correct.At least , in my personal experience , and in my point of vieuw.
As I stated , in one of my posts.Her 1st question may be :
# – why did you come to Ukraine ??? Your answer , to this question , will determine , if she should ask you , the second one.And , if it will be , to learn more , about your intentions.

For a Westerner , it may not seem so important.But for her (them) , it will decide , if she wants , to learn more about you.
Meaning , if she wants , to have another date with you.
Now , I don`t mean , just a date.I mean , to spend more time , with each other , and trying to know each other better.

If you moved up , to that level , you will still , have some challenges ahead.But , hey , I never said , that it would be easy.
Be prepared , to show , that you are a (real) man.That you didn`t came , just for some personal fun.

That it is your goal , to find a lifetime partner.And , she may be that person.Is she going to believe you , on your blue eyes ???
Some women may (although not right away), some may not (mean , it can take quite some time).

Don`t give up , believe in yourself , and watch the signals , that she may be giving you (or , when not , try to find out , the reason for that).
Maybe , you should adjust , some of your reactions.Maybe , you give them , the wrong , interpretations.

That said , it is obvious , that you have done your homework , too.Know , how to behave , how to treat them.Always be prepared , to pay the bill (yes , many men , tend to try , to negotiate about it).
Or have a discussion , over it.
This can make or brake , a good time , which you 2 , may have.

Don`t let her know , that you believe , the bill , is too expensive.When she really likes you , she will always ask , what she can order.
If not , think again , about asking her , for the next date.

This all , will prove , that you are confident , and you have a strong believe , in yourself.The women just love this.


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on August 27, 2015 at 7:19 am said:
Good assessment Paul. You’ve done your “on the ground” research very well.

I’d like to piggy back on your fine assessment.

Guys, I found that the good-night or good-bye kiss held many signals, as well.

On my first dates, it was quite comfortable and acceptable to kiss her on the cheek.

On the second date, another kiss cheek is good. However, by the 3rd, it’s time for a nice, short lip kiss. If the lady turns her face to her cheek on a 3rd or 4th date, she may not be into you.

I found by the 3rd date, if you were making a lip kiss and longer ones later, then she is really into you and you are definitely the candidate to be her man.

Don’t forget the flowers!!

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Male Shaming Tactics - Seeker - 03-12-2015, 01:43 AM
RE: Male Shaming Tactics - Scott - 03-13-2015, 05:41 AM
RE: Male Shaming Tactics - Seeker - 03-14-2015, 01:48 AM
RE: Male Shaming Tactics - Seeker - 04-13-2015, 02:32 AM
RE: Male Shaming Tactics - Hockey - 08-17-2015, 04:29 PM
RE: Male Shaming Tactics - Seeker - 08-27-2015, 01:50 AM
RE: Male Shaming Tactics - Hockey - 08-27-2015, 04:29 PM
RE: Male Shaming Tactics - Hockey - 08-28-2015, 07:28 PM
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