CAWC:
Thanks for your question. I’m sure that as time goes on and more sign up to these forums, you’ll get other opinions. But for now, here is mine:
You first mention that you find it hard to meet a girl in the States – let me say, that the problem is probably not yours. The problem is 90% American women. Our society has raised them to have unreal expectations and for the life of me, I don’t know how so many American Men can stand to be in relationships with them. I suppose that it is just pure loneliness.
If you are in decent shape, don’t have a night-stalker personality and you have a decent job, you’ll be able to find a woman in EE that is thinner (in better shape), more feminine, happier and will take better care of you than any American woman will. Bring on the hate mail. Even the friends that I have with the hottest American wives who treat their men (my friends) the best, they still pale in comparison to my Russian Wife. Just two days ago my best friend told me that he was jealous of me because he sees how my Wife treats me and how his wife treats him.
As for your planned trip to EE – while there is a remote chance that you might go over and meet your dream woman on your first trip, it is more likely that you will make a few trips. I suppose that all guys should have the mentality that this is more of a process than lightning striking. In my case, it took me 10 years to find my wife. Now, I found a lot of 8’s and 9’s and I could probably have married years ago, but I was really looking for my soulmate and I’m very very glad that I was very very selective.
Without breaking dating down to shopping, lets draw a parallel here. If you decided that you wanted to buy a house in Spain, would you only fly over to Spain for two weeks and then call up real estate agents after you arrive and ask to see houses? Or, would you call/email a half dozen agents and tell them when you’re arriving and how long you’re staying for and then ask them to line up houses for you to look at? The second option would certainly be a wiser use of your time and resources. That in mind, why would you just show up to EE and expect to meet a girl on the subway?
Probably 98% of the women in EE are NOT looking to migrate to the West. That being said, you’ll have to fish through 1,000’s of women just to find a handful that are interested in immigrating. If instead, you meet 20 or 30 women on an international dating website, then you’ll probably have meetings with like-minded women when you arrive. Actuallly, you’ll probably have more dates than time and you’ll have to cut down our list. If you know you’ll be in Kiev for a week and Odessa for a week, I’d email every woman I was interested in and tell them what days I’ll be in. Offer to meet for coffee only. If there is a spark, ask her out on a proper date. I’d meet every woman on my list and then decide who’s on my short list and then start dating them in the time I had left.
You’ve made the biggest step so far – the decision to go. Until you go, you can’t really know what it is all about. But if you’re going for two weeks, you don’t want to sit in your hotel room for two weeks wishing you had dates. I’ve made that mistake and then walked around town trying to meet women at the market, at the bus stop, etc. Not a good use of time. If you are emailing with 20 women and you have lunch with girl 1, dinner with girl 2, next day lunch with girl 3, etc., you’ll be able to weed out who works and who doesn’t.
Of course, a lot of that can be accomplished by emails and Skype. Meet 50 women online and email with them a few times and then offer to call on Skype. You’ll know right away if there is any chemistry. IF there is: pursue. If not, walk away. Even if she says she’s interested. If she doesn’t want to touch, kiss, hug and be with you, then she’s only in it for a green card. You’ll know if the woman is attracted to you. If she isn’t – walk away.
Don’t be afraid to go to Russia, or Ukraine. The news hypes the crisis. You’ll get a super deal now, better than ever as the Dollar is once again King in EE.
4 weeks and 2 weeks sounds great. If, you meet all the women you have on your list and none pan out, get back on Elena’s or Cupid and change your profile to read, “I’m in Moscow right now. Who would like to meet for lunch?” See who replies. If you see a woman you would like to meet, do it. Meeting women in cafes works, if you live there. 6 weeks, it’s going to take a LOT of meetings to weed through women who aren’t interested in immigrating.
If you go to Odessa, stay in the city center. You can walk to the beach and a cab to Arcadia is cheap.
I would recommend to stay in the city center in any city you go to. Often, women from the countryside will come to the capital and will see the same tourist attractions. A woman from Siberia who’s in Moscow will go to the Kremlin. You can meet these women and its better than a woman from Moscow.
You’ll always do better with a country girl. More conservative, will take better care of you, less feminism and less drama. To find them, you’ll need to have a membership somewhere unless you do the Trans-Siberian Railway. I did it about 6 years ago and I highly recommend it. Met a lot of wonderful women.
Always rent an apartment over a hotel. You’ll save a ton of money making your own breakfast and coffee. And, you can bring her back to your place for champagne or wine after dinner. Further savings. Apartments are the way to go.
Have always meant to do the Global Entry but have never made the time for it.
Thanks for your question. I’m sure that as time goes on and more sign up to these forums, you’ll get other opinions. But for now, here is mine:
You first mention that you find it hard to meet a girl in the States – let me say, that the problem is probably not yours. The problem is 90% American women. Our society has raised them to have unreal expectations and for the life of me, I don’t know how so many American Men can stand to be in relationships with them. I suppose that it is just pure loneliness.
If you are in decent shape, don’t have a night-stalker personality and you have a decent job, you’ll be able to find a woman in EE that is thinner (in better shape), more feminine, happier and will take better care of you than any American woman will. Bring on the hate mail. Even the friends that I have with the hottest American wives who treat their men (my friends) the best, they still pale in comparison to my Russian Wife. Just two days ago my best friend told me that he was jealous of me because he sees how my Wife treats me and how his wife treats him.
As for your planned trip to EE – while there is a remote chance that you might go over and meet your dream woman on your first trip, it is more likely that you will make a few trips. I suppose that all guys should have the mentality that this is more of a process than lightning striking. In my case, it took me 10 years to find my wife. Now, I found a lot of 8’s and 9’s and I could probably have married years ago, but I was really looking for my soulmate and I’m very very glad that I was very very selective.
Without breaking dating down to shopping, lets draw a parallel here. If you decided that you wanted to buy a house in Spain, would you only fly over to Spain for two weeks and then call up real estate agents after you arrive and ask to see houses? Or, would you call/email a half dozen agents and tell them when you’re arriving and how long you’re staying for and then ask them to line up houses for you to look at? The second option would certainly be a wiser use of your time and resources. That in mind, why would you just show up to EE and expect to meet a girl on the subway?
Probably 98% of the women in EE are NOT looking to migrate to the West. That being said, you’ll have to fish through 1,000’s of women just to find a handful that are interested in immigrating. If instead, you meet 20 or 30 women on an international dating website, then you’ll probably have meetings with like-minded women when you arrive. Actuallly, you’ll probably have more dates than time and you’ll have to cut down our list. If you know you’ll be in Kiev for a week and Odessa for a week, I’d email every woman I was interested in and tell them what days I’ll be in. Offer to meet for coffee only. If there is a spark, ask her out on a proper date. I’d meet every woman on my list and then decide who’s on my short list and then start dating them in the time I had left.
You’ve made the biggest step so far – the decision to go. Until you go, you can’t really know what it is all about. But if you’re going for two weeks, you don’t want to sit in your hotel room for two weeks wishing you had dates. I’ve made that mistake and then walked around town trying to meet women at the market, at the bus stop, etc. Not a good use of time. If you are emailing with 20 women and you have lunch with girl 1, dinner with girl 2, next day lunch with girl 3, etc., you’ll be able to weed out who works and who doesn’t.
Of course, a lot of that can be accomplished by emails and Skype. Meet 50 women online and email with them a few times and then offer to call on Skype. You’ll know right away if there is any chemistry. IF there is: pursue. If not, walk away. Even if she says she’s interested. If she doesn’t want to touch, kiss, hug and be with you, then she’s only in it for a green card. You’ll know if the woman is attracted to you. If she isn’t – walk away.
Don’t be afraid to go to Russia, or Ukraine. The news hypes the crisis. You’ll get a super deal now, better than ever as the Dollar is once again King in EE.
4 weeks and 2 weeks sounds great. If, you meet all the women you have on your list and none pan out, get back on Elena’s or Cupid and change your profile to read, “I’m in Moscow right now. Who would like to meet for lunch?” See who replies. If you see a woman you would like to meet, do it. Meeting women in cafes works, if you live there. 6 weeks, it’s going to take a LOT of meetings to weed through women who aren’t interested in immigrating.
If you go to Odessa, stay in the city center. You can walk to the beach and a cab to Arcadia is cheap.
I would recommend to stay in the city center in any city you go to. Often, women from the countryside will come to the capital and will see the same tourist attractions. A woman from Siberia who’s in Moscow will go to the Kremlin. You can meet these women and its better than a woman from Moscow.
You’ll always do better with a country girl. More conservative, will take better care of you, less feminism and less drama. To find them, you’ll need to have a membership somewhere unless you do the Trans-Siberian Railway. I did it about 6 years ago and I highly recommend it. Met a lot of wonderful women.
Always rent an apartment over a hotel. You’ll save a ton of money making your own breakfast and coffee. And, you can bring her back to your place for champagne or wine after dinner. Further savings. Apartments are the way to go.
Have always meant to do the Global Entry but have never made the time for it.